It’s time to talk about homeschool socialization. This is often the number one concern of family, friends, and strangers alike, so I thought it would be worth exploring.
This is just one of our posts in our Homeschool Tips & Tricks Series.
The number one question I’ve been asked by people who aren’t familiar with homeschooling is, “How do you socialize your children?” My answer is usually, “Well, I don’t. I lock them in a closet all day and feed them worksheets.” {Hehe.} Today we’re going to explore three homeschooling socialization myths and realities.
Homeschool Socialization Myths
Have you ever heard {or thought} these myths about homeschoolers? I have!
Myth 1: Homeschoolers are weird. This might be true, but you’ll also find plenty of “weirdos” who aren’t homeschooled. Another thought: Who says “weird” is bad? Albert Einstein was “weird,” right?
Myth 2: Homeschoolers lack social skills. Most kids lack social skills. For many kids, these skills have to be caught AND taught. You’ll find the same number of kids in the public school who need these skills, too.
Myth 3: Homeschoolers dress funny. To be honest, my kids prefer wearing their PJ’s all day. When we go out in public, I do ask them to change. The skill of matching also needs to be taught to most children, so we work on that, too. 😉
Homeschool Socialization Realities
Reality 1: Homeschooling is often a more positive socialization experience than other schooling situations. Homeschoolers can meet and interact with a wider variety of people. From what I remember and hear from my teacher friends, socialization in schools is often more limited than you might think with the pressures of testing and covering content in every grade level.
Reality 2: Homeschooling can look different for everyone, but getting plugged into a local homeschooling network is helpful. I love that within our own homeschool network, we have tons of kids. My kids learn to play and interact with kids of all ages. Playing on the playground while watching out for those toddlers is no easy feat!
Reality 3: In many communities, there are so many homeschool groups, co-ops, and field trip opportunities that families could be gone all day every day if they wanted to. The key is finding a balance with your routine that allows your kids time away from home and time to work at home.
Quick Ideas for Homeschool Families
If you need “socialization” ideas for your kids, here are some to get you started.
- music lessons
- church groups
- simple play groups
- field trips
- homeschool co-ops
- gymnastic classes
- dance lessons
- online classes
- group sports
If you find that there’s very little going on for homeschoolers in your area, start something. Two and a half years ago, we started a homeschool share group where our kids could come together and present in front of a group. It’s been a great way to help my kids develop many social skills.
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Enjoy homeschooling!
~Becky
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